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[Gina]

365 daily emails to help you through the grieving process Grief support groups: Click here to find a GriefShare group near you.  If you would like to find a group for a friend or relative, try our Search Page. Want to read ahead or resend a previous daily email? Click Here Feeling the Need to Be in Control Day 36 When life seems to be spinning out of control, you may grasp whatever reins you can find and hang on. Holding those reins gives you a sense of being in control, not only of your life but, more specifically, of your emotions. Emotions can be frightening because they are the least controllable aspect of your nature. Men in particular feel the need to be in control. "Most men are high on control," says Jim Grassi. "When tragedy strikes, it's a loss of control. You realize just how small you are in the scheme of things and that God is really the One in control. You must release that control and give it back to God and allow Him the full authority in your life." As long as you are fighting God for control, you will be the loser. Let it all go. Tell Him today that you are tired of fighting, that you want Him to have full authority in your life. "The mind of sinful man is death, but the mind controlled by the Spirit is life and peace" (Romans 8:6). Holy Spirit, I long for that life and peace. This fight to be strong has depleted the last of my so-called resources. Take my life and lead me on the journey of healing. Amen. Take a look at our Online Bookstore for additional information on this topic. We know that it can be very difficult to find resources which are truly helpful. Resources which can help you heal. Resources that you can trust. That is why we have done the work for you. Our selection of books and other materials are truly the best of the best. They are hand picked, meticulously reviewed, and selected based on the value that they will bring to your life and the healing process. Order from the GriefShare HelpCenter If you would like to recommend these daily emails to a friend, please click here. For more  information about GriefShare, including how to sign up for these daily emails, please click here. All scripture quotations, unless otherwise indicated, are taken from the HOLY  BIBLE, NEW INTERNATIONAL VERSION®. NIV®. Copyright ©1973, 1978, 1984 by International  Bible Society. Used by permission of Zondervan. All rights reserved. Copyright ©2003-2008 by The Church Initiative, Inc., All rights reserved. No part of this material  may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical,  including photocopying and recording, or by any information storage and retrieval system,  without explicit permission in writing from Church Initiative. You subscribed to this daily email through www.griefshare.org.  We value your privacy! We will  never give, sell, rent, or otherwise share your email or personal information with  any other organization — EVER. If you have any problems or concerns, please contact dailyemails@griefshare.org. GriefShare 250 S. Allen Rd. Wake Forest, NC 27587 (800) 395-5755

[Peacety76]

This is was well needed for me and I am glad I came here to read it.  When I feel my life is spinning out of control I would turn to Cutting.  I look at the scars on my arms and kno that something has to change.  I have not turned to S.I in a couple of months but withthis surgery and stuff and not being able to do anythingthe thoughts have passed through.  And I kno that it's partly becuz I feel like right now I have no control over my life.  I have been praying.  And so far I have been doing pretty good.  Yea I am on meds but I knoits not only the meds that are helping me.  Anyways enough on that.  Thanks for postingthis.  Mel